Tuesday, February 11, 2025

The Hunters Are Afraid


What we are seeing unfold nationally right now are the vengeful actions of deeply racist people. They are also deeply fearful people. There is no other way to explain the venomous suppression of Black History being foisted upon the American people: wealthy white people, who hold our country by the throat, are afraid. 

Afraid of losing power. Afraid of facing the consequences of their own actions. Afraid of a future where they and people who look like them are no longer the default “Americans.”

I’m bringing back this post from last February because it feels frighteningly relevant.


Until the Lion Tells the Story, Village Green/Town² 2/25/2024

The other evening I found myself drawn in to a documentary film on public television entitled “Finding Fellowship.” It’s the story of a community in Maryland that doesn’t exist anymore, called Quince Orchard. From the film’s website:

FINDING FELLOWSHIP, BUILDING COMMUNITY

How can a community that evolved for more than 100 years only carry on in the memories of a few surviving members? This story is personal to us because we are descendants of this place – our family has lived here since the Civil War. But it’s relevant to you too, wherever you live. There are countless Quince Orchards all across the country. Communities that no longer exist on the map, not because of economic stagnation, but because of progress.

As I watched the film I was reminded of the efforts of our own local historians of Ellicott City Black History. There’s something deeply poignant about the desire to unearth and protect the stories of people who have been traditionally forgotten or even mischaracterised by the (largely white) writers of history books. One only has to watch the reactions on the Finding Your Roots television series to see how profound an effect each revelation of their past has on Black participants.

They are the reactions of people whose history has been suppressed.

Often there’s a sense that Black History month dwells largely on bigger-than-life heroes. Every year the same culturally approved scholars, inventors, small business owners, and inspirational politicians are trotted out in BHM curriculum materials. It is well meaning, I guess. But there’s a sort of breathless amazement about it - - Gosh, did you know Black people could be inventors? Be brave? Be really, really smart? It almost seems to be an exercise in silently asserting that most Black folks aren’t anything like that, so let’s all be surprised. 

Every dang year.

The older I get, the more I see Black History Month as a reminder that we haven’t and still don’t value Black lives enough that a Black History Month isn’t necessary. Think of how long the former students of the Harriet Tubman School had to fight to preserve their school and the stories it contains about segregation and systemic racism here in Howard County. Think of how hard Marlena Jareaux/Howard County Lynching Truth and Reconciliation have had to push uphill to be heard and gain even a small modicum of acceptance for their historical work.

“Until the lion learns how to write, every story will glorify the hunter.” - - Chinua Achebe, Things Fall Apart, in 1958. 

The real story of Black History Month to me is the longstanding erasure of American human beings simply because they were Black. That is why the film Finding Fellowship truly moved me. It is history told by people who respect their subjects and care about getting it right. It’s not about superheroes or major court cases or military victories. It’s about a small, once segregated Maryland town and three churches.

If you get a chance to see Finding Fellowship, I hope you will take the time. It’s not splashy. It draws you in gently, like stories told on a front porch or a quiet sermon that leads you to insights you hadn’t yet been able to see. 


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The older I get, the more I see Black History Month as a reminder that we haven’t and still don’t value Black lives enough that a Black History Month isn’t necessary. 

Silencing Black History Month is an act of cowardice. We already know that these people don’t want to value Black lives. Now we know they’re even afraid to hear the stories of Black Americans. 

What a puny, pathetic ideology that must be. 


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Monday, February 10, 2025

Play It!




Do you know any high school pianists? It looks like they are hoping for more entrants to the Young Musicians Piano Solo Competition at HCC:

Attention High School Pianists! Deadline Extended! You now have until February 18 to submit your video entry! Showcase your talent and compete for cash prizes in the Young Musicians Piano Solo Competition at HCC! Prizes: 1st Place: $1,000 HCC scholarship plus $350 cash, 2nd Place: $250 cash, 3rd Place: $150 cash.

For more information and an application, visit the Piano Competition page on the HCC website.  There will be a Showcase Concert on Friday, March 21, 2025 at 7:00 p.m where winners will be announced and those in attendance will get a vote in choosing the Audience Favorite.

True confession: the real reason that this piano competition made it into the blog today has to do with the fact that three piano stories presented themselves to me within 24 hours. I took this as a sign.

The Washington Post featured the story of a young man named Josiah Jackson who rescued a dilapidated piano a Chicago’s O’Hare Airport. 

"It was in very rough shape: Dust was everywhere, and there was a gluey substance under the keys that prevented them from working," he said. "I'd never seen anything like it."

Jackson used a vacuum attachment to suck up the piles of dust, then he pried out the 88 keys and cleaned them one by one with a damp cloth. He scraped up the gummy muck that was stuck inside and used a rag to wipe the interior of the piano.

"I figured out the reason the piano was such a sticky mess was because it was next to a bar, and people had spilled their drinks on the keys," he said. "It was definitely the biggest challenge I've ever had."


There’s nothing local about this story. It just made me feel good. And since I was able to locate it through my handy dandy Howard County Library access, I thought I’d share it with you. 

Johnson even has his own YouTube channel called the Piano Doctor. His piano tuning business is located in West Michigan, but his videos give him an international reach. I found a video about the Chicago Airport piano which is nearing two million views.


Another piano story closer to home comes from UMBC. 

The hills are alive with the sound of piano music, Jennie O’Grady, UMBC Magazine 


Students play on a piano tucked away in the woods across from Fine Arts as part of the installation, "Piano Garden." (Marlayna Demond '11/UMBC)

It’s an unexpected performance opportunity plus it’s an art piece of sorts, presented by Livewire: Resounding at UMBC last fall.

“Piano Garden” is the latest “performance” of New Zealand-born composer Annea Lockwood’s ever-growing outdoor series of “Piano Transplants” compositions in which, since 1969, defunct pianos are burned, submerged in water, or—as is the case at UMBC— left to be taken over by trees and plant life.

It is interesting to note that artist Annea Lockwood’s description of the Piano Transplants project stipulates:

PLEASE NOTE: All pianos used should already be beyond repair.

I don’t know if the piano in the woods at UMBC was beyond repair but it certainly wasn’t beyond playing. 

“I always look for a practice room with a window, but sometimes I can’t get one,” [student Luke Heichlinger] says, explaining that he and his friend, Hannah, originally joked that the piano in the woods might be a hallucination. Thankfully, it wasn’t—so they came back the next day prepared with sheet music. 

There you have it. Three sorts of pianos. One for competition, one transformed from years of use and abuse, and one left in the woods to decompose. An odd juxtaposition but, after all, it’s Monday. 



Saturday, February 8, 2025

The Show Must Go On



I had a visit from our youngest this week. We talked a bit about current events and the onslaught of distressing news right now. Something interesting emerged.

“I have a friend who’s never had anyone to teach them how to tell whether things on the Internet are real or not. And right now there’s so many upsetting things out there. So we sit down and I have been explaining how you can tell if something is fake, or how to tell if something is an unreliable or discredited source.”

I was proud. And I was grateful to have a kid who is capable of doing that and would take the time to do that to help someone else. 

I’ve been thinking a lot since then about what makes it possible to be media literate/savvy these days. My kid is a graduate of the county schools, has a liberal arts degree from UMBC, and has family who reads, discusses, and analyzes current events. A lot.

Is that where it comes from? Did education develop and hone those critical thinking skills and did family experiences provide continued opportunities to stretch and deepen them? And I wonder if part of it is something innate that makes one want to dig deeper and understand, reaching beyond surface soundbites and clickbait?

In the midst of my pondering I came across this post by writer Ally Henny:

Believe it or not, but being educated in the arts is also an important part of media literacy. 

A lot of people, and by people I mean folks who use this app and not just young people, who are unable to discern when things are staged, when stuff has been edited, when a video is a skit, satire, etc. I believe that a lot of this is happening at least in part because of a lack of exposure or familiarity with the arts. 

And, of course, this isn’t a judgment. But I think it might help explain a lot.

My kid, this kid who is no longer a kid, is my one hundred per cent musical theatre kid. Participated in band, choral singing, and acapella groups. Performed in school musicals and went to musical theatre camps. Has a degree in theatre studies. Teaches voice, piano, drama, and directs both musicals and straight drama productions.

Boom.

This reminds me of a piece I wrote back in October about the Humanities.

Studying topics within the humanities (this includes the arts, remember) provides us with the tools to think creatively and critically, to reason, and ask questions. Additionally, it fosters the ability to look at things from different points of view, which, in turn, develops empathy. All of these things are crucial in becoming active and informed in civic engagement. They contribute to building better informed and more consistent voters plus they are strong motivators for community engagement and volunteering.

Human brains are not merely overgrown vending machines with neat rows of separated silos of products waiting to be purchased. So much about how we learn and who we are is an amazing interconnected web of possibilities. To devalue and eliminate the humanities cuts us off from a profound element of who we are.

It also weakens our ability to participate in democracy or even to understand it.

If we can’t tell whether things that are being presented to us are real or false, how can we stay informed and engage/participate in a democratic society?

being educated in the arts is also an important part of media literacy. 

Not the only part, mind you, but an important one. And we, as parents or as role models to young people, can empower that essential growth in media literacy by validating their involvement in arts experiences. And then someday it will be one of those kids sitting down with a friend and showing them how to discern truth from trickery.

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An almost unbelievable postscript to this story is the announcement late yesterday that the current President intends to seize control of the Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts. It could not be more clear: attempts to control and suppress artistic expression are the hallmarks of anti-democratic political systems. - - jam


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Friday, February 7, 2025

F ³: All the Fashion



Have you noticed how food trends come in waves? When I was in college a menu item called “Lyonnaise Potatoes” was all the rage. It was everywhere. Surely you remember when arugula burst onto the culinary scene, or mesclun/spring mix. Then came sous vide, followed by Wagyu steak…

What about in home decorating? How many homes have been forever changed because of those two little words: open concept? Recently the words on home shows that make me tilt my head like a dog hearing an unfamiliar sound are “elevated” and “moment”. You can even put them together for greater effect: 

We’re creating an elevated moment by choosing mermaid tile for the shower.

I admit that my concept of the word elevate prompts me to imagine a whole lot of levitation going on. It strikes me that this might be dangerous in the shower.

As to “moment”…if you let the fireplace have a moment won’t the other parts of the house be jealous? What will you say to the foyer? The powder room? Who gets the “moment” experience and who gets overlooked?

Yes, I think too much. But you knew that.

Lastly, a word I’ve been seeing a lot on social media over the last several years is “impactful.” My brain tells me that this is not a real word. And yet people keep using it. So, I looked it up. This is what I learned.

Is “Impactful” a Word?, Shundalyn Allen, Grammarly

  • Impactful emerged in the 1960s as an adjective meaning “manifesting a great effect or impact.” 

  • Some critics reject impactful as an illogical, unnecessary, and clumsy piece of jargon. 

  • Yes, impactful is a word, but it’s likely to annoy at least some of your readers. If you want to substitute another word for impactful, use a synonym such as influential, powerful, or effective.

Here I thought this word sprang into existence no more that four or five years ago and it has been floating around since the 1960’s. Oof.

I don’t think for one moment that those of us who find it odd will have any impact on its widespread usage. It will keep going and going like the Energizer Bunny until its current popularity wears off. Then it will retire to the place where old and tired buzzwords go. It will not be alone. Possibly “vibrant” will be there, along with “engagement” and “influencer”.

They will feast on Lyonnaise Potatoes and Spring Mix in their open concept home with elevated furnishings and moments of luxury.

Are there any currently popular words that make you wince, rub you the wrong way or just plain puzzle you? Let’s have a little word play today. 

Thursday, February 6, 2025

HoCo Hospitality Highlights


In local business news…

Lost Ark Distilling Company has announced that it will be closing February 15th.


Lost Ark opened in 2016 with the mission of crafting American Rum. They also created a cocktail venue and held special events. I honestly don’t know much about them but I was a big fan of Lady Anne’s Rum Punch Pina Colada Jam ​made by Neat Nick Preserves using rum made by Lost Ark.

They’re inviting folks to stop by for one last visit before they close.

The Little Market Cafe in Old Ellicott City is closed right now but have no fear. Its only temporary while they make renovations.


Exciting Updates from Little Market Cafe!

We wanted to share some important news with all of you, our amazing customers! Little Market Cafe will be closing this Sunday at 4 PM to allow us to make some much-needed renovations to our kitchen and floors. We’re so excited about these upgrades and can’t wait to welcome you back with a refreshed space on March 1st as we kick off Mardi Gras celebrations in style!

While our cafe is closed, we will still be accepting catering orders, and our team will be working out of Morsberger’s Tavern to ensure you get the delicious food you love. If you have any catering needs, don’t hesitate to reach out!

Stay tuned for updates on our renovations and the exciting events we have planned. Thank you for being part of the Little Market Cafe family, and we can’t wait to celebrate Mardi Gras with you when we reopen!

Their social media game is strong, so you can keep up with them in the interim on Facebook and Instagram.

Finally, Fox and Barrel in Ellicott City is reopening today after being closed since early January for renovations and menu updates.






They are open for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Not sure how the roads are right at this minute but I’m sure they’d love to see you today if it’s safe enough to drive. We went there a year or so ago and it’s a sweet little place. I took a bunch of pics for a blog post but never got around to it. It will be fun to see how it has changed.

Have a good day, stay safe and keep me posted on other interesting business news.


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Wednesday, February 5, 2025

The People in Your Neighborhood


 

I do not know what it is like to be an immigrant, or to be undocumented. I do not know what it is like to be a Federal worker, either. Strangely enough, I can feel for them. My heart goes out to them. I can see the wholly unnecessary cruelty being imposed on them and know it is wrong and inhumane.

Why? Because they are my neighbors. And because, as the sign says:


“It shouldn’t have to happen to you for it to matter to you.”


So that brings me to Federal workers. There are many who live here in Howard County and until quite recently I wouldn’t have seen any connection between them and County residents who have come here from other countries. Yet now they are linked essentially by the fact that they are targets of a new administration whose goal is to slash and burn. 

It’s breathtaking how fast that has happened, isn’t it?

A word today in support of our neighbors who are Federal workers. Maryland State Comptroller Brooke Lierman shared the following post on Facebook yesterday:

This is a shout out to our federal workers. 

They are nurses, scientists, social workers, doctors, engineers, assistants, accountants, air traffic controllers, lawyers, TSA workers, food safety inspectors, park rangers, water inspectors, auditors - and more. 

They are moms, dads, grandparents, singles, community volunteers, food-pantry-donors, neighbors. 

They work at the Veterans Administration (the largest agency), US AID (fight for it!), the Nuclear Regulatory Commission, NOAA, HHS, the Dept of Education, Defense, Homeland Security, the Dept of Transportation, the IRS, the Smithsonian and more.

They are there for us: every single one of us. They don't check to see if Republicans or Democrats will drink the water or meat they test; they don't ask what state you're from and then deny you entry at the Smithsonian; they don't care who is on a train, car, bus, or airplane - they want to keep us all safe. They care for our veterans. They want to protect our families. They want to save us land to explore. They are us.

Right now is the toughest time in my lifetime for our federal workers. And I know many groups, unions, and attorneys general are fighting to protect them. 

Our federal workers are part of what makes America, America. 

So, THANK YOU to our federal workers. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I am with you; we are with you.

Have you seen this fact sheet?

Text only:

The Truth About FEDERAL EMPLOYEES

  • Federal Employees comprise just 1.87% of the American workforce
  • 4.3% of the federal budget amounts to federal workforce compensation
  • The ratio of federal workers to national population has steadily decreased for more than a 1/2 century
  • Federal employees are paid 25% less compared to private sector counterparts
  • Only 10% of federal employees are fully remote
  • 79.4% of federal working hours are spent at an in-person workspace

1 OUT OF 3 Federal employees is a veteran of the U.S. Armed Force

FEDERAL EMPLOYEES ARE MORE EDUCATED

Federal workers are:

• 53% more likely to have at least a bachelor's degree

• 120% more than twice as likely to have an advanced degree than private-sector workers

SOURCES

Federal Salary Council Working Group, U.S. Office of Management and Budget , U.S. Office of Personnel Management, U.S. Congressional Budget Office

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Here’s the crux of the matter as far as I am concerned: immigrants do incredibly valuable work in our community. Federal workers do incredibly valuable work in our community. Oddly enough, the ways in which they contribute to the places where they live can be largely invisible. We can easily take them for granted. 

That would be a mistake. Not just because their work benefits us, but because they are our neighbors

Who is my neighbor? Good question. Now would be a good time to reread this piece from June of 2017:

I Don't Know How To Explain To You That You Should Care About Other People, Kayla Chadwick, HuffPost 

I can’t debate someone into caring about what happens to their fellow human beings. The fact that such detached cruelty is so normalized in a certain party’s political discourse is at once infuriating and terrifying.

Which one was a good neighbor?

The one who showed mercy. - - Luke 10:25-37



Tuesday, February 4, 2025

Three Things for Your Tuesday

 


Soup is coming. Thank heavens for that.



From our friends over at the Common Kitchen:

SOUPER BOWL WEEKEND

FOUR DAYS ONLY

10 INTERNATIONAL SOUPS 

EAT SOUP, WIN PRIZES!

VOTE FOR YOUR FAVORITE!

THURSDAY FEBRUARY 6TH TO SUNDAY FEBRUARY 9TH

11:30AM - 8PM

Join us for Souper Bowl Weekend and try a cup of soup from our vendors. Each vendor will craft a soup and you get to decide which one is the best. You get one free raffle ticket for attending and you also get one raffle ticket for each soup you purchase.

I went last year and loved the experience. (Beautiful Soup) It seemed like it had been created just for me: I love soup, I’m a fan of the Common Kitchen, and I’m not even remotely jazzed about football. Although I should stress that there’s nothing anti-football about this event. I just happened to find it a refreshing change from all the ‘sportsing’ commentary and general hubbub at this time of year.

On another front, I am happy to see that the Howard County Maryland Black History page on Facebook is sharing information about local Black History Month events. If you are trying to find a lot of this information in one place, take a look there. I applaud Howard County Black History for getting the word out. I tried to make a comprehensive listing last year and it more or less broke my brain. 


Earnest if inadequate attempt to organize information: February 2024


Finally, I’d like to recommend the most recent post in the Howard County Library “Chapter Chats” blog.

A Message to Our Community from Howard County Library Systems on Recent Executive Orders, Tonya Aikens, President & CEO HCLS

I’ve written quite a bit over the last several years about the growing trend to attack and curtail intellectual freedom. The most recent presidential election has amplified this to an alarming degree. But there is no such thing as a free and democratic society without intellectual freedom. If you want to see what it looks like to stand firm in defense of the core values of our democracy, here you are:

At HCLS, our vision, mission, and values remain unchanged. We continue to pursue a vision of an empowered community where all people reach their potential, and our mission remains as your place to learn, grow, and connect. Our organizational values of community, equity, intellectual freedom, learning, and teamwork serve as our foundation. We steadfastly affirm our unwavering commitment to supporting our community and maintaining the core values that guide our work.  

Amen.


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Monday, February 3, 2025

What Kids Are Thinking


 

It’s a Monday in February, and if you guessed that a lot of Howard County students have the new cell phone policy on their minds, you’d be right. It will mean big changes and it will be stressful, no matter how much good we hope it will do in the long run. But on this particular Monday cell phones might not be top of mind, as amazing as that seems.

Some kids will go to school wondering if they or family members will be seized by ICE.

Some will fear that their parents’ employment will be purged by the ongoing rampage of Elon Musk and his cronies through Federal Government.

Some fear heightened and renewed racism as programs that supprted Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion are vilified and destroyed. 

Some worry that it soon won’t be safe for them to use the bathroom in school anymore.

It goes without saying that some kids fear going to school every day because of the prevalence of school shootings. 

And look! Here’s something new to fear. That old hate group, Libs of TikTok, is out to get the Howard County Schools again. 



I wrote about Libs of TikTok back in August.

Hate Group in the Henhouse  8/22/24, Village Green/Town² 

A reminder:

[Founder Chaya] Raichik uses the accounts to repost content created by left-wingand LGBT people on TikTok, and on other social-media platforms, often with hostile, mocking, or derogatory commentary. The accounts promote hate speech and transphobia, and spread false claims, especially relating to medical care of transgender children. The Twitter account, also known by the handle @LibsofTikTok, has nearly 3 million followers as of February 2024 and has become influential among American conservatives and the political right. Libs of TikTok's social-media accounts have received several temporary suspensions and a permanent suspension from TikTok.

…Some Libs of TikTok posts have resulted in harassment against teachers, medical providers, children's hospitals, libraries, LGBT venues, and educational facilities, several of which received bomb threats after being featured on a post. - - Wikipedia 

The worst thing about this is that it had to be someone from our own community who “reported this” so that Libs of TikTok could unleash an attack. This is someone who is so deeply uncomfortable with the concept of addressing issues of race and the prospect of students developing critical thinking skills that they were willing to draw a big red circle around those students and their teachers and make all of them targets of hate.

Adults have a tendency to roll their eyes about the things that young people care about. It may seem as though it’s all cell phones and social media, TikTok and selfies. It’s far too facile an approach to assume it’s all pop music, fast fashion trends and consumer fads. 

Look at the world they wake up to every day. 

Some are anxious and upset about the new cell phone policy.

Some will go to school wondering if they or family members will be seized by ICE.

Some will fear that their parents’ employment will be purged by the ongoing rampage of Elon Musk and his cronies through Federal Government.

Some dread heightened and renewed racism as programs that supprted Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion are vilified and destroyed. 

Some worry that it soon won’t be safe for them to use the bathroom in school anymore.

It goes without saying that some kids fear going to school every day because of the prevalence of school shootings. 

And now there’s something new to fear. Libs of TikTok has put a big fat target on their backs. 

So, what will we do? What are the best ways to support our young people, our teachers, and our schools? Because, if we truly care about our kids the way we say that we do, we need to step up like never before.

Ideas? Let me know.


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Sunday, February 2, 2025

Learning, Sharing, Celebrating



Yesterday was the first day of Black History Month. Here are some words worth pondering from Erika Strauss Chavarria, President of Columbia Community Care:

Happy Black History Month! We celebrate Black History from January 1st- December 31st. 

Amen to that.

I want to call your attention to some upcoming activities while also acknowledging that there are many many more that will be going on in Howard County throughout the month.

First, an entire five days of learning and celebration beginning tomorrow, February 3rd for Black Lives Matter at School Week. Notice the collaboration at work here. I’m really excited to see this lineup.

Anti Racist Education Alliance, Columbia Community Care, African American Coalition of Howard County, Community Allies of Rainbow Youth, Luminus, Howard County Educators Association.

Black Lives Matter at School Week of Action 2025 - - learn more and register for events here.


Notice the green stripe at the bottom: Free Dinner, Free Admission, Open to Everyone. The planners want to remove barriers that might make it difficult for people to participate. 

On Saturday February 8th the African American Community Roundtable is holding a Community Read-In. 

DROP IN TO CELEBRATE BLACK HISTORY MONTH AS YOUTH, STAFF, AND COMMUNITY MEMBERS READ BOOKS BY BLACK AUTHORS AND CREATE ARTS AND CRAFTS. THIS EVENT IS PART OF THE INTERNATIONAL AFRICAN AMERICAN READ-IN, A LITERACY INITIATIVE THAT ENCOURAGES COMMUNITIES TO READ TOGETHER, CENTERING AFRICAN AMERICAN BOOKS AND AUTHORS.

You have your choice of two Howard County Library locations: East Columbia Branch from 12-2 pm or Glenwood Branch from 1-3 pm.




Again, notice the community partners listed at the bottom here. This kind of collaboration makes events like this possible.

And notice the words in the red box this time, which tell you what you can expect: FREE BOOK GIVE AWAYS WHILE SUPPLIES LAST. FREE ADMISSION AND PARTICIPATION FOR ALL AGES. LIGHT REFRESHMENTS WILL BE SERVED.

Please feel free to add any other local Black History events in the comments, and keep me posted throughout the month.


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Saturday, February 1, 2025

Things Worth Believing In, Episode One



A brief episode of Things Worth Believing In this morning.


This evening at 7 PM, the Howard County Dance Festival will take place at Oakland Mills High School. The event is open to the public but you must purchase tickets in advance at this website. 

Howard County Dance Festival Tickets

The cost is ten dollars. No tickets will be sold at the door. Consider bringing some cash to purchase refreshments which will be offered by the Oakland Mills Fine Arts Boosters. 

After the world’s longest January, treat yourself to an evening of performances by all thirteen high school dance companies as well as the 2024-2025 All-County Dance Performance Ensemble. 

We hope for our children and for all young people the opportunity and capacity to believe in something greater than themselves and to experience the joy of diving in and living out their joy.  Perhaps that’s the underlying meaning of a well-known song performed by Leann Womack.*

I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance

Never settle for the path of least resistance

Livin' might mean takin' chances, but they're worth takin'

Lovin' might be a mistake, but it's worth makin'

I hope you dance

If you have a HoCoLocal idea for today’s Things Worth Believing In, let me know.


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Friday, January 31, 2025

F ³: Solidarity Is Not So Simple



This week I inadvertently made someone feel terrible and I have been thinking a lot about that. It started when I posted the following:

I guess I should be grateful that Target has made it unequivocally clear that they don’t want my business anymore.

I had already been deeply disappointed by how Target folded on supporting Pride this summer and their recent disavowal of their own Diversity Equity and Inclusion initiatives was the last straw for me. I was expressing my intention to take my dollars elsewhere.

A friend of mine perceived this as public judgement of anyone who didn’t follow suit. It so happened that she had felt the same when I expressed a desire to cut back on my purchases from Amazon. 

I felt awful.

It’s okay to say “I have made a decision to boycott a business because of the following reasons.” It is never okay to say “so everyone else has to do it, too.” I hope that I have never done that but I do understand the feeling of gradually feeling piled on.When those around you are vocal about a particular issue,  it can gather enough momentum that it is easy to take it personally.

During the height of the pandemic many of us were using Instacart for grocery deliveries. Then it came out that their workplace policies were pretty terrible, their workers were ill treated, and that in some cases they didn’t truly receive their own tips. At this point a big chunk of folks I know articulated their displeasure and ceased using Instacart.

But I couldn’t. At that point my asthma had made me too ill too physically push a cart around a store plus my medications weakened my immune system. So I kept using Instacart but I felt guilty about it. For a long time I handed my Instacart person their tips in cash at the door so it couldn’t be diverted. 

All of this is to say that we do not know what other people’s circumstances are. Do you remember the big push to do away with plastic drinking straws? A great thing, yes? We all know they are bad for the environment. But then it was discovered that a whole segment of the population legitimately needed drinking straws because of disability and no one had given a thought to that. 

Oh.

I’ve been seeing a lot of references to solidarity lately but I’m not sure that we are all working from the same definition. It is too simplistic to say “There’s power in numbers, so let’s all do the same thing at the same time!” Who decides? Whose voices are amplified? 

I did a basic Google search on solidarity and I found this from St. Olaf University in Minnesota:

Acting in solidarity with others means that you will:

  • give marginalized or oppressed identities the same respect and affirmation that majority identities may take for granted
  • center voices of marginalized or oppressed identities in our work
  • do the self work to “unlearn” your own biases
  • bring humility to your interactions with others
  • practice empathetic listening
  • take action that amplifies the work of the community and organizers from the community

I heard a conversation this week on public radio and a guest pointed out that many people live in food deserts and/or don’t have cars. What if a particular business, say Target, was the only place they had access to for buying groceries? I’m able to make certain choices because I have a car and I have a variety of consumer alternatives within my immediate community. That’s privilege.

True solidarity is not telling our neighbors they must do exactly what we are doing. However, it could be supporting others by using a business like Costco cooperatively and even delivering groceries to people who don’t drive. That’s a level of solidarity that I certainly did not grow up experiencing. I don’t think many white people do.

We are more likely to see our responsibility as resting in individual acts and choices. We see solidarity as the power of lots of people making those individual acts and choices. When we admire the persistence of the Montgomery Bus Boycott, a lot of us don’t really understand the ongoing, organized community care that made that movement possible. Privilege makes this kind of cooperation and interdependence unnecessary. 

Not understanding that is often the downfall of well-meaning initiatives. And it creates a rift between us and those whose life experience has taught them truths we never learned in school or in life.

There are many ways to be a force for good and I am learning all the time. If I could only overcome my telephone anxiety, for example, I could be making calls to my elected officials. I am in no position to judge others.  

I’m grateful to my friend for reminding me to remember and include those who are not exactly like me.











Thursday, January 30, 2025

The Lonely Lot Has A Big Day


 

It is extremely difficult right now to focus on good little stories of the local variety. Sure, our nation is being set on fire with selfishness and hatred but can I interest you in Restaurant Week or a show at Toby’s? 

It feels callous and unfeeling to act like things are normal. And I feel like such a disclaimer will be hanging over this space for quite some time. 

And yet, a large part of who we are is made up of our good little stories. They are signs of our humanity. - - jam

*****

Today at eleven am there will be an official ribbon cutting event for the new 7 - Eleven in Oakland Mills. This location consists of the usual convenience store along with gas pumps and a car wash. If the stars align and my yearly heating inspection cooperate, I will be there.

What’s the big deal about a 7-Eleven, you ask? Well, the bigger deal is probably the land it’s sitting on, which has been empty for a really long time. A hazy recollection puts it at twenty-plus years. I moved here in 1999 and I think there was still an Exxon Mobil gas station there but my husband told me it was probably the most expensive gas station in Columbia and was to be avoided. I think it closed not too long after that.*

People who know the details: feel free to fill me in. 

That site, located at the corner of Robert Oliver Place and Stevens Forest Road, is the reason that I found myself at a County Council Meeting in the George Howard Building for the very first time. Community members came out to support a proposal for a class A office building on that lot. It would have given that empty space a new purpose and it would have brought more people into our village center to patronize our businesses and, hopefully, to learn more about the goodness of Oakland Mills. After all, “We Value Connections.”

It didn’t happen. That’s a pitifully short explanation for a really complicated story and it involves creative thinking from former County Executive Ken Ulman, insurmountable glitches in financing, and a dubious County Council. Other people could tell that part of the story better. I’m telling it because it was my first experience in going to a public meeting to advocate for something on behalf of my community.

I guess you could say that put me on the road to ruin, or at least on the road to where I am today. 

That plot of land does not belong to the Village of Oakland Mills. It is privately owned. But the success or failure of every component of a Village Center has an impact on the Village as a whole. I sometimes see community groups gloating that they have torpedoed projects in their areas that they deem to be unsuitable. This concerns me because they seem to be under the impression that they will now be able to entertain better offers.

I don’t think they understand what it is like when no one wants to invest in your community at all. Businesses fail, or decide not to renew their leases. Those spaces are not filled. People start describing your community space as “sad” or “ sketchy.” Folks on the other side of town who have never even been to your neighborhood warn friends away from visiting it.

The Oakland Mills Community Association has worked with merchants and has advocated for the Village Center for as long as I can remember. This includes both professional employees, Village Board members,  and neighborhood volunteers. Embedded within every success we have are their efforts and advocacy.

Also, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention County Government here because I know they have been partners and helpful sounding boards in many Village Center issues over the years. There’s probably another blog post in that all by itself. 

Finding a way for the Village Centers in the older Columbia Villages to thrive and be commercially relevant has been an ongoing theme for years now. I honestly think we need to cheer every success. 

So, if you don’t live in Oakland Mills, maybe you can drop by soon to try out the new 7 Eleven and see for yourself what we’re like. 


Village Green/Town² Comments 


*This had nothing to do with my lack on patronage. 


Wednesday, January 29, 2025

The Message in Black and White


 

Dear friends, I have a confession to make. 

I have a hard time reading white type on a dark background. It occurs to me that other people may be in the same boat. 


Image is a screenshot from the County Executive’s social media/Facebook account


Yesterday County Executive Calvin Ball released a statement on actions taken by the Executive Branch which will likely bring adverse effects on many Howard residents. You may already have seen it but I think it’s important to share it here, especially for those of us who would benefit from seeing it in black and white.

Here goes:

HOWARD COUNTY EXECUTIVE CALVIN BALL

RELEASES STATEMENT ON FEDERAL FUNDING FREEZE

BY TRUMP ADMINISTRATION

Calvin Ball, County Executive

January 28th, 2025

"We are deeply concerned by President Trump and the Office of Management and Budget's directive to freeze federal funding for a broad swath of public and nonprofit organizations across the United States. Our team is continuing to evaluate the full impacts of this directive, should it be enacted, on Howard County programs, service delivery, and government operations.

These actions by the Trump Administration may jeopardize our neighbors' ability to keep a roof over their heads, food on the table, or remain employed due to a lack of transportation. An abrupt federal funding freeze will unequivocally affect workforce training initiatives and transportation options for residents to jobsites.

We also know that many of our local nonprofits rely on federal funding to administer important programs and services that support our neighbors, including Head Start and early childhood education for families. We are very disturbed to hear that funding portals have been closed for many critical nonprofit programs as this directive is evaluated and implemented.

Howard County Government anticipates that the impact of federal funding freezes or cuts in our operating and capital budget could be tens of millions of dollars. This funding supports critical infrastructure, emergency management, and public safety needs. This could include essential funding for the completion of Historic Ellicott City's North Tunnel project, which is the largest public works project in County history and will reduce the risks of flash flooding on Main Street.

Other potential impacts to infrastructure include road maintenance, bridge repairs, and water and sewer infrastructure.

In addition to capital funding impacts, Howard County relies on federal funding to support key operations of our government. This directive could impact funding for transportation efforts including public transit, affordable housing programs and homelessness services, public safety and emergency response, and workforce and job training programs, among other impacts to critical programs.

We welcome quick action by our judicial system to halt this federal directive and restore access to federal funds. The threat of losing this critical funding to these essential services is incredibly troubling and could be devastating to families and workers.

We will continue working to ensure the best outcomes so that all our residents are and feel safe, valued, and respected. We are thankful for our Congressional representatives and Governor Wes Moore's Administration for their efforts to combat this measure on behalf of all Marylanders and communities across the nation. We continue to urge President Trump and his administration to work with us to ensure the continuity of these critical services and county operations."

Howard County Executive Calvin Ball

*****

This statement shows an administration that is committed to keeping the community informed as well as to doing the work of seeing residents through what could be an extremely difficult time. It shows leadership, thoughtfulness, and empathy. There’s no dramatic ranting or false promises here. There are no attempts to diminish the truth of the situation, either. 

As you may imagine, some folks came out of the woodwork to mock the County Executive. Their comments showed neither thoughtfulness nor empathy and I am extremely glad that they are not in positions of local leadership.

Anyone who is willing to go on the record as rejoicing in others’ suffering at a time like this is not scoring points. They are telling on themselves.

Having a local leader tell you the truth when you would rather hear that “everything is going to be all right” can be an uncomfortable feeling. But it is a darn sight better than the profound dishonesty emanating from the White House and those who are proud carriers of the lies that this administration is rooted in. 

I woke up at three am feeling a sense of dread. I continue to be incredulous that there are some people in my own country who legitimately thrill to the idea of harming me, my family, my friends, and millions of perfectly wonderful people who I will never know. There’s no easy solution to that. It is clear and horrifying evidence that some people will let what is most precious about Democracy slip through their fingers if they think there’s something in it for them. And if the people they don’t like will be made to suffer. 

But, no. It is not slipping through their fingers. They are throwing it away. 

Do I want magic? Do I want miraculous intervention? You bet I do. Still, the fact the County Executive and his team are doing their jobs and making it clear that they are not done working on behalf of the community is something to be grateful for. 

Even at three in the morning.


Village Green/Town² Comments


Tuesday, January 28, 2025

But It’s Not Really Funny


 

One minute you’re a well meaning, aspirational planned community and the next you’re in the crosshairs of presidential retribution.

Image is a screenshot taken from a post on Bluesky .

THE WHITE HOUSE

WASHINGTON

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

01/26/25

ICYMI: President Donald J. Trump's TRUTH on Columbia Sanctions

A few nights ago The New American City found itself the topic of many a social media post when the President announced sanctions on Columbia. 

Columbia? Columbia, Maryland?

Of course he really meant “Colombia” (the country) but he didn’t take the time to check his own work and apparently no one else in the White House did, either. Yes, we have all been the victim of our own stupid-ass typos but then, we are not the President of the United States, are we?

Over on Bluesky folks had a field day with the careless error.



Guess this means that my Columbia Association dues will increase? — concerned Columbia, MD resident

Hey I work in Columbia…MD.  Call Governor Moore, we’ve been sanctioned. I wish this was funny. It’s pathetically stupid. SMH.

Did Donald Trump just announce 25% tariffs on Columbia, Maryland?

Columbia MD is now concerned… but has no coffee

I’m imagining that Columbia, MD seeking injunction in Fourth Circuit tomorrow after getting slapped with 25% tariffs by Trump 

maybe he meant Columbia MD, one of the blue state Columbias

i live in the real Columbia, in the middle of MD. wonder when the army will start the trek up 95?

Hide your coffee, Columbia 

Man oh man, people in Columbia, Maryland must be really mad right now

General Admission tickets to any show at Merriweather or Toby's dinner theater will now be $10,000.00, and Mall parking will require a credit check. (Columbia, Maryland humor)

Maybe he wants Columbia Maryland? Is he after Merriweather Post Pavilion since he already owns her Mar-a-Lago?

There were other Columbias in the mix: Columbia, South Carolina, Columbia University, and even Columbia brand outdoor clothing. Yes, it was a laugh a minute there for a while. I think people joked about it because they knew, deep down that no one they knew was going to be hurt by this error. That made it fair game. Plus, in times of extreme national stress, a lighthearted moment can be therapeutic.

But the underlying issues are not funny at all. Deportation without due process, engaging in strong arm “diplomacy” via social media, sloppy communications,  ignorant bluster and threats. None of that is funny. 

Summing up, a bit of advice from a Bluesky poster who appears to be channeling Bernie Sanders:

I’m once again asking Americans to learn the difference between Colombia and Columbia.

If the President could learn that, yeah, that would be great.


Village Green/Town² Comments

Monday, January 27, 2025

A Step in the Wrong Direction


 

I haven’t asked you to write a letter lately, so: here goes. The following is from the Anti-Racist Education Alliance:



CALL-TO-ACTION

AREA is joining the HCPSS BOE in opposing local bill Ho Co 15-25, which would impose an unfunded mandate on HCPSS to study weapons detection technology for our schools. 

If you share our objection, please send a letter to the Howard County Delegation by 6pm on Tuesday, January 28. You can reach all of them at once using this email address: hoc1@mlis.state.md.us

Below you’ll find a link to an email template but it’s not necessary to use it. 

Please share! 

Email template: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1qYvBCUBTukQlYOlA0sLW9wjNnCum13gXIOkFCvhs_sc/edit

Draft legislation: https://www.howardcountymd.gov/sites/default/files/2024-11/Ho.Co_.%2015-25.pdf







AREA advocacy letter


We should not be diverting valuable resources from educational programs, especially at a time when needs are so great and financial resources are so limited.  I wholeheartedly agree with Matthew Vaughn Smith, President of the Anti-Racist Education Alliance, who says: 

School money should be spent on competitive salaries for educators and wraparound services that help support our student's emotional capacity.

Not on an expensive study. Not on bogus AI tech.

AREA is encouraging community members to sign their petition and to support the Howard County Board of Education and Anti-Racist Education Alliance, Inc. by telling the Howard County Delegation to vote 'no' on local bill HoCo 15-25.

I hope you will take some time to read the advocacy letter printed above and give this issue some thought. We all want our kids to be safe in school. The last thing we want to do, though, is to throw a lot of money at something when it almost certainly won’t help and could even make things worse.


Village Green/Town² Comments 




Sunday, January 26, 2025

Who Tells Our Story? A Garden Can.



The report of the Public Garden Focus Group is now available.  I tip my hat to them. Creating reports like this takes a lot of effort and their work has definitely been a public service. So, check it out!

You can view the county’s press release here, and the full report is available at this link:

A Public Garden for Howard County Maryland

Here’s a write-up from the Baltimore Banner: 

Howard County’s public garden will honor its troubled past, Jess Nocera

While I’m not keen on the title of the article, I’m also aware that Nocera probably didn’t have any input in writing it, so I won’t hold it against her.  If you read the article and/or the report itself it’s clear that the plans for the public garden are meant to honor the history of the site itself: a former plantation which held and exploited enslaved people.  The title of the article makes it look as though the focus is a troubled Howard County in general. 

What can I say? Things like this bug me.

When I wrote about this in July I had high hopes for the outcome of this report as the focus group examined possibilities for a uniquely Howard County public garden.

The Longwood site has the potential to provide public spaces for aesthetic enjoyment as well as environmental education. Embedded within all those possibilities is the heavy burden of the history of the land itself as a “plantation” or forced labor camp for enslaved Africans. My highest priority for this site is that the resulting gardens place as high a value on the history as they do on the planting and maintaining of the natural environment.

Ironically, the release of the report coincides with the virulent wave of history denialism from the new administration in Washington. Do we have the commitment and courage in Howard County to stand up for our convictions and create a public garden that both inspires and educates? 

I certainly hope so. 


Village Green/Town² Comments


Saturday, January 25, 2025

Risky Behavior



Earlier this week…

From the Howard County Department of Fire and Rescue Services:

Last night, firefighters responded to the 10800 block of Timber Line Lane in Ellicott City for the report of a dog who had fallen through the ice of a frozen pond.

Firefighters were able to quickly rescue and reunite the dog with his family.

In an attempt to rescue the pet prior to our arrival, one civilian had gotten into the water. That patient was evaluated by EMS and refused transport to the hospital.

As these cold temperatures continue, this is an important reminder of just how dangerous ice can be. If you have kids at home, talk to them about ice safety.

Falling through a frozen pond, lake, or river can kill you.


Image credit: Howard County Department of Fire and Rescue Services


We don’t often get this kind of extended cold snap. The idea of getting on the ice doesn’t just tempt pets, either. Several days after the dog rescue, a social media post showed humans out on Lake Elkhorn. The poster expressed concern.

The responses were mixed. Some were of the “don’t be a killjoy, let kids have their fun” variety. You know the kind.

I did it when I was little and nothing happened to me.

What stunned me were the other responses. These were people who had direct knowledge of people who had lost their lives from falling through the ice. Not, “I heard” or “I read” but actual friends or family members. These were occurrences within their own lifetimes.

If you saw kids playing with matches near a row of cars or a lot of dry brush, would you intervene? Or would you think, “let them have their fun!”

What is there about going out on the ice (or swimming in quarries) that makes some people forgo good sense? A healthy respect for the dangers involved doesn’t make you a killjoy. It makes you safer. It makes you someone trustworthy in potentially life threatening situations.

And yet I wonder if some of the folks who saw no problem with kids playing on the ice might find, say, a group of Black or Brown kids walking around their neighborhood to be cause for alarm and/or intervention from the authorities. I’m making no accusations in this particular case. But my years of observing local social media posts have been very informative when it comes to what people deem risky behavior. 

Who is just having fun? Who is up to no good? Food for thought, at least for me.

It is truly unlikely that anyone reading this is legitimately an expert in determining whether local bodies of water are frozen enough to be safe for recreational use. It’s also unlikely that any of us think that even one death or catastrophic injury is okay if it means that the general public is free to “have their fun.”

How rare is it that the ponds freeze over? Rare enough that we don’t talk to our kids about the dangers? Rare enough that we ourselves forget the dangers?

Maybe.