I’ve realized that my brain operates on a simple assumption: Each new experience is an opportunity to screw up. Over the last several years I’ve realized that spending most of my life with undiagnosed ADHD has a lot to do with that. Having an extremely judgemental mother didn’t help, either. I envy folks who feel exhilarated by new adventures. I immediately start making mental lists of how something new could be awful or how I could fail. I decided I wanted to rewrite that script which has been dominating my thoughts for far too long. At first, I tried this: Each new experience is an opportunity for something wonderful to happen. At this suggestion, my brain just laughed. This was just too big a leap. As much as I believe in positive self-talk, this was more like trying to convince myself that there were fairies living at the bottom of the garden. I tried again. Each new experience is an opportunity. How about that , Brain? Open-ended enough for you? Brain was not entirely convin...
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