Skip to main content

F ³: Dîner en Blanc





Have you seen this photo?


Kristen Bell shares photo of Idaho dinner party with Jennifer Aniston, Courteney Cox, Jason Bateman, Adam Scott, John Mulaney, Olivia Munn, Jake Tapper and Jimmy Fallon. 
Photo: Instagram/@kristenanniebell



It has been making the rounds on Twitter. When it caught my eye it reminded me of my Dairy Queen post.

The Dairy Queen Question, Village Green/Town², October, 2022

As with the DQ meme, when I look at this photo, one thing leaps out: how relentlessly, exclusively white it is. Once you see it, you cannot unsee it.

Twitter has been aswirl with responses from people who frequently find themselves in the excluded categories. Their descriptions are witty but they also carry pain from personal experience. Some white folks have been enraged by this. They maintain that it is noticing race which is racist. They ignore the deep experience of those who are holding this photograph to the light. 

But we have an opportunity to learn here. Each wry and pointed tweet is like a signpost that can communicate to us what systemic racism really looks like, if we are willing to truly see.

This statement summed it up perfectly for me:

Seemingly “natural” homogeneous gatherings like this are a result of the  systematic exclusion of marginalized people and further perpetuate the marginalization.Here are my favorite tweets pointing out this absurdity. - - Arghavan Salles, M.D., PhD


pov: you go to a job interview for a company that has “we value diversity” on their homepage



The posting: "Scholars from diverse backgrounds are encouraged to apply."

The department:



“We especially encourage you to apply, especially if you are from a marginalized or underrepresented background”



NIH funded health disparities scholars!



The prize committee that judges whether or not your novel about Black life in the US is sufficiently authentic



‘Our board has a strong commitment to our organisation’s diversity…’

The board:



The program director: At our program we strive for diversity and inclusion, that’s part of the reason why we offer J1 visas for foreign medical graduates as well

The residents:



Mississippi: *is the Blackest state in the nation, with 4-in-10 residents being Black*

Mississippi's statewide leaders since 1890:



Dr. Salles concludes the thread with these words: 

For the people saying they’re just hanging out with their friends: in Hollywood, as in most other circles, people who look like them hold the majority of the wealth, power, and status. The same people left out of their social networks are left out professionally too. That matters.

All your friends may be white because long years of red lining and discrimination may have kept your neighborhood white. And your schools white. Many of your workplace experiences and relationships may be with white people because you instinctively gravitate towards groups that look like your neighborhoods and schools.

The people who do the hiring are the same. The leaders of charities and nonprofits. The political leadership. The hospitals and medical institutions. The legal system. The people who hire the journalists who write your news.

The same people left out of their social networks are left out professionally, too. That matters.




Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Getting Fresh

One of my favorite days in the Spring comes when this year’s list of Farmer’s Markets is released. That happened this week. New this year are markets in Old Ellicott City and the “Merriweather Market” which, according to the address, will be located here . I mistakenly thought at first glance that it was in the new-construction part of the Merriweather District. I find the name confusing considering its actual location. I’m going to guess that this market is an initiative of the Howard Hughes Corporation because the name seems chosen more for branding purposes than anything else.  Alas, the market in Maple Lawn is gone. The thread on the markets on the County Executive’s FB page will provide you with quite the education in who actually runs the Farmers Markets vs what people often think is going on. Short answer: they are not  chosen nor run by the county. Each market is an independent entity, sometimes started by community volunteers, other times supported by local businesses...

They Can Wait

This is not a typical Saturday post. That’s because, in my community, it’s not a typical Saturday.  Oakland Mills High School, after years of deferred repair, needs massive renovation. It’s pretty simple: when you don’t fix a problem it gets bigger. The school system itself said the the OMHS school building was  "no longer conducive to learning" back in 2018.  2018 .  But Thursday the Boad of Education voted to push it out of the lineup of important projects which will be given the go-ahead to proceed soonest.  In my opinion it’s a terrible decision and sets a dangerous precedent. To explain, here’s the advocacy letter I sent in support of Oakland Mills High School. I was rather proud of it. I am writing to ask you to proceed with needed renovation at Oakland Mills High School in the most timely and comprehensive manner humanly possible. I have read the letter sent to you by the Oakland Mills Community Association and I am in complete agreement. You are extremel...

What Kids Are Thinking

  It’s a Monday in February, and if you guessed that a lot of Howard County students have the new cell phone policy on their minds, you’d be right. It will mean big changes and it will be stressful, no matter how much good we hope it will do in the long run. But on this particular Monday cell phones might not be top of mind, as amazing as that seems. Some kids will go to school wondering if they or family members will be seized by ICE. Some will fear that their parents’ employment will be purged by the ongoing rampage of Elon Musk and his cronies through Federal Government. Some fear heightened and renewed racism as programs that supprted Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion are vilified and destroyed.  Some worry that it soon won’t be safe for them to use the bathroom in school anymore. It goes without saying that some kids fear going to school every day because of the prevalence of school shootings.  And look! Here’s something new to fear. That old hate group, Libs of TikTo...